Preparing for Marriage Activity
by Linda King / ga05042007
 


 

We decorated the gym like a wedding reception.  One of the leaders talked to the girls about how her daughter had a coin collection that was very special to her and how we all have things that are very special to us and as she spoke she put the coins in an envelope and then also said that family was the most important.  She then turned the envelope upside down and all the coins fell out she then said, "how did that happen?"  Of course all the girls said "well, you didn't have the envelope sealed."  Then they all said "Oh, we get it."

She then proceeded to explain that it is important that we are sealed together with our families.  We then talked about the temple cans and what we put in them.  We had them write a letter to themselves and explained that we would seal up the cans for them to open later. 

We had two returned missionaries come and played the man of your dreams or the man of your nightmares where we had scriptures that associated either a man of your dreams or a man of your nightmares. 

After, the girls read a scripture they then picked out a prop that matched the scripture and gave it to one of the returned missionaries.  We looked in the topical guide for ideas on:

- honoring priesthood, and then we had a set of scriptures
- we then looked for something about a slothful person and our prop was a remote control and a bag of chips (i.e. couch potato)
- then we had a jar of money and we looked for a scripture on worldly possessions
- we used a statue of Christ and found a scripture on following Christ

That was how we did it with the scriptures and props.  The returned missionaries then talked about what they were looking for in a young women.  One young man had even made a list and talked a little bit about his list.  In  the end we had the young men put back on their props and had the young women each stand between them with her hands held towards each of them like she was trying to decide which she would choose the man of her dreams or the man of her nightmares and we then took their picture.  It was fun. 


 

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May 4, 2007

 

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