Dating & Moral Standards

Reference:  L. Tom Perry in Conference Report October 1979, p. 51;
or Ensign November 1979, p. 36
 

Elder L. Tom Perry  told of how one young girl kept her standards in perspective:  "She was the only member of the Church in her class in school.  She was a popular young lady with the boys, and had many opportunities to go out on dates.  The boys in her class did not live by the standards she had been taught in our Church.  She made the decision to tell every boy who asked her for a date what standards she lived by.  If she were to date them, they would be expected to conduct themselves in accordance with her standards.  She would get such a commitment from them before she accepted a date.  One day the big campus football hero came up to her before the most special dance of the year and said, 'You know, I would ask you to go to the dance with me if you would lower your standards just a little.'  There was no hesitation in her voice as she replied, 'If I would go out with you, I would be lowering my standards."