"Be there for your children. Sit on the bed and enjoy the late-night
talks--try to stay awake! Pray for the Lord to inspire you. Forgive often.
Choose your battles. Testify frequently of Jesus Christ and His goodness and
of the Restoration. And most of all, let them know of your trust in the Lord."
-Bonnie D. Parkin, "Sweet Moments," Ensign, Nov. 2005, 109
"The correct development of a
child requires the commitment of mature parents who understand either
consciously or intuitively that children to not grow up like Topsy. Good
mothering from birth on provides the psychological core upon which all
subsequent development takes place. Mothering is probably the most important
function on earth. This is a full-time demanding task. It requires a high
order of gentleness, commitment, steadiness, capacity to give, and many other
qualities too. A woman needs a good man by her side so she will not be
distracted and depleted, thus making it possible for her to provide rich
humanness to her babies and children. Her needs must be met by the man.
Above all, she must be made secure. A good man brings out the best in a
woman, who can then do her best for the children. Similarly, a good woman
brings out the best in a man, who can then do his best for his wife and
children. Children bring out the best in their parents. All together they
make a family, a place where people of great strength are shaped, who in turn
make strong societies. Our nation was built by such people." -Harold Roth,
M.D.
"Are we likening all of our children's gospel
experiences to the real needs in their lives? Are we teaching them about the
gift of the Holy Ghost, repentance, the Atonement, the sacrament, and the
blessing of sacrament meeting as they meet the challenges in their lives?
There is not enough time in formal meetings to teach our children everything
they need to know. Therefore, we must take advantage of everyday
teaching moments. These moments are priceless. They come when we are
working, playing, and struggling together. When they come, the Spirit of the
Lord can help us know what to say and help our children accept our
teaching." -Robert D. Hales, "With All the Feeling of a Tender
Parent," Ensign, May 2004, 90